Counselor Charlotte Oduro gave advice to young ladies who are in relationship but get disappointed later on by their so-called boyfriends. She advised them if it happened for one reason or another that the guy, they are dating impregnated another girl while they are still together, they should call of the relationship.
She believes that if he impregnated another girl, he has proven that he is not a good “husband material” and does not deserve your forgiveness.
The Marriage Counselor Dr Reverend Mrs. Charlotte Oduro has this advice for ladies in such relationships, adding that such cheating boyfriends will never stop cheating and the forgiving ladies would have to prepare for a much more intensified cheating (adultery) when they get married.
“You love him. Does he love you? If he loved you, he wouldn’t have gone to sleep with somebody and impregnate the person,” she quizzed the audience at a recent programme dubbed “Love Clinic” covered by MyNewsGh.com
She stressed that the cheating boyfriends are unlikely to stop their cheating ways and will continue to make the ‘mistake’ of cheating, she admonished.
“If you are here and a guy, you’re not married to tells you: ‘I am sorry. I love you but it was a mistake and I impregnated that lady. I am sorry. Can you forgive me; I won’t do it again.’ Please start registering in your heart – if you want to marry a man like that – there are 20 kids coming to add up to yours. [This is because] because that mistake that made him do that, he will still do it…you cannot change him,” she counseled.
As a young lady who loves her boyfriend no matter what gets in your relationship, can you forgive your boyfriend if he impregnated another girl while you are still in relationship?
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